Sacrifice

One morning while I was driving to work, hoping not to be trapped in traffic jam,(o dear....I miss my housewife title) I was listening to Santapan Minda Sinar FM conveyed by Dr. Fadhilah Kamsah. He talked about teacher. I liked one of his phrase, "teachers are not like candle which burn itself to give light to others, but teachers are like sun, shine for others without burning itself". yeaahhh....me tooo...I don't want to be candle I want to be sun...shining others and make myself happy. Sacrifice for others but not to sacrifice myself as well. I can sacrifice for my family; my husband, my sons and my daughter....but my sacrifice will not be in vain....I hope so...even though we are scattered but we are still one...the loneliness and unhappiness..now.. are the sacrifice for future happiness...is that like candle???